Wow, some people are more pathetic than others. They basically made this a socialist app this year where everyone was close to same and no one could even spend big and yet there are still a large group of you cry babies. It sounds like you are just really bad at this game. Tons of non paying or close to NP that have a lot of maxed players. Go look in the mirror and glance what a loser looks like then ask your mom for a hug and have her tell you it will be alright.